Friday, September 17, 2004

Employement Discrimation is Non Exist

The reason is - one would have to be employed before one experience emaplyment discrimination. I have seen too many of my friends who walked away from everything they had - good jobs, family, presteige - to become who they are today. When we become who our true selves, we are liberated. Too bad, the rest of the world don't agree.

Some trans folks quickly find themselves to become unemployed and underemployed. Did our ability to function change overnight?

If you happen to know a law firm that is ioen to hire transgender attorney in San Francisco, please feel free to contact me, I have a friend that I like to introduce

Sunday, September 12, 2004

NTAC Sets Lobby Days for May 2005

Transgender activists will converge on Capitol Hill on May 18 – 20, 2005 to lobby Congress once again for passage of transgender-inclusive hate crimes and employment nondiscrimination legislation.  Lobby Days 2005 is sponsored by the National Transgender Advocacy Coalition (NTAC), the country's largest and most active organization advocating for the rights of transgender Americans at federal, state, and local levels.

Participants are expected from all over the country and will likely include victims of anti-transgender hate crimes and those who have personal experience with employment and other types of transgender bias and discrimination.  NTAC and the National Center for Transgender Equality will help attendees arrange meetings with their senators and representatives and staff members.

Marisa Richmond, Chair of the NTAC Lobbying Committee, noted that 30 lobbyists from around the country visited 81 Senate offices and 236 House offices in April 2004 to discuss the need for transgender inclusion in pending civil rights legislation.  “This effort played an important role in identifying potential supporters of transgender inclusion in ENDA and LLEEA,” she said.  “This information was vital to the coordinated effort by transactivists in getting HRC to adopt a new trans-inclusive policy towards ENDA.  We look forward to maintaining the momentum in 2005.”
 
One major difference in the 2005 lobbying effort is the recent decision of the Human Rights Campaign decision to support only a transgender-inclusive Employment Nondiscrimination Act (ENDA).   It is essential to have demonstrably significant numbers of concerned community activists and supporters working together to educate their elected representatives on these vital issues.  The need has never been greater, and HRC support can improve our reception in Congress.
 
"Since 1999, NTAC has been advocating in support of equality for the transgender community," said Vanessa Edwards Foster, chair and co-founder of NTAC. "We may well be on the edge of a new era for our community, an era of unfettered accomplishment in our fight for civil rights. It's essential that NTAC and the transgender community are distinctly visible and a key part of this effort towards our equality."

NTAC will hold a plenary session for training and assignments on May 18th.     The plenary will consist of a brief lobbyist training session, review of handouts to be discussed and left at each office visited, and assignments for May 19th and 20th.  Participants will have the opportunity to meet and interact with many transgender and trans-supportive activists and representatives from organizations working toward fully inclusive federal hate crimes and civil rights protections and to participate in other Lobby Days events and actions to be announced.

Registration and hotel information will be linked to the NTAC website (http://www.ntac.org) when details become available.  In the meanwhile, those with questions about joining this grassroots lobbying effort can write to (lobbying@ntac.org).

As done in 2004, NTAC and the Transgender American Veterans Association (TAVA) are coordinating dates for their 2005 Washington, DC spring events.  The second TAVA national gathering of transgender veterans, some of whom are also NTAC members, is scheduled to begin after NTAC lobbying ends on May 20.  The TAVA event will include visits to veterans memorials on the National Mall and in Arlington, VA.

You can make a difference, for yourself, your family, and your community. Join your brother and sister transgendered American activists, veterans, family, friends, and supporters in speaking truth to our leaders and working for a truly equal America for us all. Your support, your voice, and your active participation will make a difference.

 



 
Founded in 1999, NTAC - the National Transgender Advocacy Coalition - is a 501(c)(4) civil rights organization working to establish and maintain the right of all transgendered, intersexed, and gender-variant people to live and work without fear of violence or discrimination.

Saturday, September 04, 2004

How To Stay Young

Of course, mother's wisdom also comes with offering the answer to everything. I used to wonder why my mom would think that she had answers to everything but as I continue with life's adventure, I finally realize the view of life is meant to be simplistic, the only  thing that complicates it is our own drama. Here's Part Two of the email she forwarded from Aunt Helen.

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out nonessential numbers.

This includes age, weight and height.
Let the doctors worry about them.
That is why you pay "them!"

2. Keep only cheerful friends.
The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning.

Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.
Never let the brain idle.
"An idle mind is the devil's workshop."
And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often ... long and loud.
Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen.

Endure, grieve, and move on.
The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves.
Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love

whether it's ... family, pets, keepsakes,
music, plants, hobbies, whatever.
Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health.

If it is good, preserve it.
If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don't take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall ... even to the next county ..
to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.

And if you don't send this to at least 8 people .. Who Cares!
But do share this with someone.
We all need to live life to its fullest each day.



Everything that comes along their way
Somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence that life is worth while.
So when you're lonely, remember this is true: Somebody, somewhere is thinking of you."

Views on Aging

Have you come across this in your email? There are many spam and junk mails that filled our inbox but this is one of those that I kept. It was forwarded from my mom. Was that here subtle hint that I am "aging"? Or was that her way of sharing her wisdom?

 

Views on Aging

Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we're kids?
If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited about aging that you think in fractions.

"How old are you?" "I'm four and a half!"

You're never thirty-six and a half.
You're four and a half, going on five!

That's the key.

You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back.
You jump to the next number ... or even a few ahead.

"How old are you?" "I'm gonna be 16!"
You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna be 16!

And then the greatest day of your life . you become 21.
Even the words sound like a ceremony . . . YOU BECOME 21.
YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30.
Oooohh ..what happened there?
Makes you sound like bad milk.
He TURNED; we had to throw him out.

There's no fun now.
You're just a sour-dumpling.
What's wrong?
What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40.

Whoa!
Put on the brakes .. it's all slipping away.
Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone.

But wait!!!
You MAKE IT to 60.
You didn't think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE IT to 60.

You've built up so much speed that you HIT 70!
After that it's a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into your 80s and every day is a complete cycle;
you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30; you REACH bedtime.

And it doesn't end there
Into the 90s, you start going backwards ..
"I Was JUST 92."

Then a strange thing happens.
If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again.
"I'm 100 and a half!"

May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!